Typical Woman Logic

Wife:

Whine, bitch, moan….

“I don’t need you!”

“I’m an adult!”

“I have a voice!”

“I have a say!”

Husband: “Fine, have it your way.”

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Wife: “You don’t love me anymore!”

 

Note: If this doesn’t apply to you, good.

 

 

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The Despicable Wife.

Who is the ‘despicable wife’?

The wife who acts like a child.
The wife who rebels against a good husband.
The wife who says, “God provides all”,
Then becomes angry when she has not when she wants more.
The wife who says to her husband, “I demand to be heard!”,
When he cares for all her needs.
The wife who says to her husband, “I do not need you,
GOD gives me all, not you!”

She is never content, but feigns it when it suits her.
She never produces, but always consumes.
She flies into fits of rage when her way is considered,
But another way is preferred.
She entices her husband to jealousy.
She lends an ear to the voices of her “friends”,
Who are no examples of femininity.
She corrupts her good friends and whispers into their ear:
“Why are you a doormat?”
“Why do you obey?”
“Rebel, like me.”
“Cast off the shackles of obedience.”

She will be judged harshly.

 

Sexual Assault is the Fashion of the Day

Look, women are herd creatures. They tend to follow the popular crowd. That’s why we have things like fashion trends and why, when Ellen or Oprah endorses something the manufacturers can hardly keep up with the demand. When the queen bee gives her stamp of approval on something it suddenly becomes all the rage and nearly everyone who is anyone will jump on board the trend train.

A month or so ago (perhaps a bit longer, time flies, after all) an actress came out and accused a Hollywood big wig of raping her. Since that time we have seen actress after actress after actress AFTER ACTRESS coming forward to tell their story of sexual assault, “predatory behavior” (what even is that?) and rape. I mean, forget that these alleged events took place 5, 10, 15, 20 years ago, and that despite these events these ladies continued to work with the alleged perpetrator AND other men accused of the same, or worse. Forget that there is little to no evidence beyond an accusation (though a few of the men accused have stepped forward with admissions of guilt, which will and should be tried in a court of law), and that the accusation is all it is going to take to ruin lives. The last time I checked our justice system didn’t convict on hearsay but on a preponderance of evidence. But it is precious snowflake, holier-than-god women we are talking about here, and (some) cute ones at that, so also know that stuff like evidence and facts are not necessarily required to “convict” a guy.

I’m all for sexual predators getting justice. If a guy genuinely committed a crime then, guess what, he should go to jail. No I don’t think he suffer the worstest penalty ever in the history of the planet because he sexually assaulted a lady. Why would I? Women have so devalued their sexuality and innocence that an actual crime against these virtues is now no surprise or shock. The number of false accusations and women convicted of rape themselves, particularly women teachers, has normalized rape and sexual assault from a crime that draws sharp breaths from the community into one that barely draws a “meh”. I understand it certainly is devastating to the victims of the crime (Unless they were school boys, then its not a big deal and the criminal doesn’t need to spend the rest of their lives in jail, just a year plus community service), but the fact that these women put themselves in the position to allow this to happen (yes, I just said that) makes their victimhood suspect.

“Hey, cutie, come with me, alone, into this hotel room. I ‘just want to talk'”

“Okay, all you ladies line up and take your clothes off.”

“Yeah, baby, Ill make sure you win an Oscar, just drop your panties.”

If these statements don’t come off as lending to the possibility of something relating to sex is about to go down then these women are much more vapid than I thought.

Accusations of sexual assault and rape are all the rage these days, dearie! Everybodies got one! Hurry up and make sure you get yours before they go out of style!

Back to the Beginning.

So after thinking some things over and talking to a few people I find that I have little hope for the churches of the West. Protestant churches can’t get their act together with scripture and nobody seems to care about it or agree on what can be done to fix it.

I talked with a co-worker and my sister this morning (my sister is the secretary of the office) and I posed a question to my sister about head coverings. The point wasn’t so much about the head coverings itself, but more about why are Christians so averse to scripture that can easily be understood as literal scripture. The verses in question are 1 Corinthians 11:1-16. My question posed to her was this: “If this is a literal piece of scripture, that is, if Paul is saying that, in the churches of God women should cover their heads while they pray and men should not cover their heads because this is dishonorable, why is the idea of head coverings so offensive?”. Now, again, the question really wasn’t about head coverings, but about the fact that the scripture itself, the words in the bible, seem to indicate that head coverings MEAN SOMETHING in the church of God, and that Paul says the covering or uncovering (female or male) should be observed, why, when I point this out, are people (men and women) offended by it?

Continue reading “Back to the Beginning.”

No Answer….

Guess I’m on a roll today.

So my wife and I are at odds about something. A week or so ago, on a Saturday morning, our house flooded. We were out camping with her church when the kids called around 8am and, since she wanted to stay at the campground and help cook, I left my wife there and headed back to the house, which was only a few miles away from the local lake we were staying at. I called our insurance company right away and got the ball rolling to get the situation handled.

Suffice to say it has been a rough week and a half. It wasn’t too bad, but the water was removed, fans and dehumidifiers placed in the home and holes drilled into the walls to aid in drying. Though my kids stayed in the house (their rooms are upstairs) the wife and I were able to get the insurance company to pay for a hotel room for a few days, which helped.

Fast forward, the insurance adjuster has yet to visit, citing that she needed to wait until the cleanup crew needed to be completely finished with cleaning and drying the house before she could come in and make an assessment of the damage and then a estimate of the cost for repairs. She was supposed to be here last Friday, but called me with the preceding information and we agreed to instead meet on Monday. Monday rolled by and I didn’t see or hear from her until late in the day. She said her notes indicated we were supposed to “get in touch” on Monday and that we could meet Tuesday afternoon. That was fine with me. She said she would be driving in from up North, I assume because she is up there working on all the issues they have had with the fires in Northern CA the past few weeks, of which there was a lot of damage.

Well, my wife was having none of that. She informed me that SHE felt the lady was being unprofessional about not showing up earlier and not being here on Monday, so she was going to issue a formal complaint to the insurance company.

I told her not to. To leave it alone because she was not in the loop to begin with and the lady was only late by one day, if she was late at all.

Didn’t matter. “I’m not arguing.”, she told me. “I’m a part of this too and I can make my own decisions.”

Frustrated I got back to my office and talked to my dad a little about it. His answer to the problem?

“I don’t have an answer.”

The answer SHOULD be, “He is your husband, you need to be obedient and do what he is telling you.”, but it CAN’T be that.

I said something about rules and he told me that he wasn’t sure “setting up rules for your wife is such a good idea”. I asked him “why not”, I mean, we set up rules for finances and all that, why not “don’t mess with the insurance company since you have no idea what’s going on” rules?

I don’t even know where to go to from here.

Sorry, there’s a lot going on in my life right now, I guess. If you get tired of it, read my short review of the game Xenogears.

The Problem with “Layers of Understanding”.

So over at another blog page (one much bigger than mine) there seems to be a battle between a few Catholic types, Orthodox types (though I guess these two are somewhat similar) and Protestant types over the “true church”, scripture and all that stuff. Important stuff, to be sure, but maybe a bit more over my head at the moment. I must admit I have done little study into Catholicism or Orthodoxy, myself being considered a non-denomination protestant (I guess, I just want to follow Jesus, really).

Part of the argument is that the Orthodoxy has had, for centuries, a clear cut vision of what scripture is and means, with rigid control by those in charge, while Protestants are kind of all over the place, with every man interpreting scripture in his own way, which has lead to confusion.

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