What is so offensive about sex to Christians? I mean, they obviously have it, seeing as how they have children. God blessed us with the act and tasked us with partaking in it to “be fruitful and multiply”. The act creates marriage between a man and a woman, and men are told to let their wives bodies satisfy them at all times.

In the bible, Song of Solomon goes a step further and gets into some gritty details about how to enjoy your spouses bodies! I’ve read before that younger men weren’t even allowed to look into the book until they reached a proper age it was considered so graphic! Even by todays standards its not exactly bible study discussion material!

Ladies, what do you find so offensive about adult material? Personally I think it’s not so much offense as it is jealousy. I mean, its pixels on monitor, a picture on a screen. It’s not a real flesh-and-blood person, and yet women get so offended when they think about their husbands watching it. I know, I know, not ALL women think this way. There are, indeed, some women out there who embrace and enjoy watching adult materials either with or without their husbands.

Christians have deemed pornography “The New Drug” and something that is horrific, offensive and ungodly. Though I wouldn’t go as far as to call it “godly” I don’t see how it is the society ending ticket to hell most think it is. Now, I have said in the past that The New Drug, for all its worth, is actually PUSHED BY THE CHURCH, UNINTENTIONALLY when they teach young ladies to hold off on getting married, having sex and birthing children until their late 20’s/early 30’s. By doing so they remove the solution to the problem of “burning with lust” prescribed in the bible, namely, marriage, and force young men to turn to other means to relieve the sting of sexual hunger. Many pastors and Christians chide those young men for not being able to pray away their desire for sex, but this is both a cruel and brainless practice! The desire for sex is not simply mental but physical, as a young boys body becomes flooded with testosterone during puberty the desire for sex becomes a real and physical itch!

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So what would happen if, instead, the church taught young wives to embraced the “adult film star” mindset rather than teaching them how to be stingy with their bodies. Teaching them to be a wellspring of sex (Proverbs 5:18) rather than a carefully controlled and regulated drip? Why the desire by the church to stymie and stem the uncontrolled flow of sex in a marriage? Its counter to scripture and counter to the well being of a marriage relationship.

Have any of these Christian ladies ever taken time to watch adult video to find out whats so appealing to men? I mean, the default answer would simply be “naked ladies and raw sex”, but I can assure you the appeal is much deeper.

Attitude.

Attitude! You’d be surprised at how many ladies out there, performing in these videos, are not the perfect 10 you’d think. Sure there are a lot (A LOT) of seemingly perfect women out there, but there are a lot of NOT so perfect women who’s bodies are nice, but who’s attitudes radiate HAPPINESS. Yes, I know, they are acting and many of them may not, in fact, be happy, seeing as how reports indicate many of them live rough lives, but that never stopped any women from enjoying any other media where people with horrible lives are acting out being happy, so just discount that excuse altogether.

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These are all things that ANY WOMAN CAN EMULATE, and that make a huge difference in the sex life of her and her husband! It is the simplest, least expensive, fastest change a woman can make, but it is far, far from the easiest! It means letting go of YOUR wants, YOUR hang ups, YOUR worries and concentrating on YOUR husband! Or, to make things easier for yourself, it means learning to LOVE SEX! It means getting rid of the lessons pounded into your head from childhood that sex is yucky, and that girls who love sex are all loose whores. WHO CARES! BE A LOOSE WHORE IN YOUR HUSBANDS BEDROOM! HE WON’T COMPLAIN! Rare is the man who, when presented with the second or third surprise blowjob of the week will grab his wife by the shoulders and say, “Woah! Wait a minute! You’re acting like a whore and this has to stop!” Rare is the man who, when his wife pulls down her panties, flips up her dress, bends over the kitchen counter and declares “I need you to fuck me, now”, turns away, disgusted at her “whorish” behavior.

Wear what he likes! Do what he wants! Try weird and fantastic positions, toys, ointments, syrups, oils, places! Work on your bedroom eyes, your lip-licks, your hair-flips! Grab his crotch when he least expects it, or have him grab yours!

I know, I know, its so much work! Why do YOU have to do everything? Why do YOU have to be the one making the effort when he could just as easily be doing these kinds of things!

First off, your attitude about sex has likely hampered him unleashing his. Men don’t think about sex as often as women think we do, but we do think about it a lot. A lot of men would love to just be able to come home on their lunch breaks, bend their wife over for a quickie, then head back to the office. Unfortunately many women are trained to find this offensive! “There’s no love in that!”, “I’m not just a piece of meat!”, “He just wants me for sex!”. WHAT? There is TONS of love in that! HE wants YOU, his wife, the woman he married! He doesn’t see you as just a piece of meat and whats wrong with him just wanting you for sex? Do you realize that, prior to marriage, every other service you could provide as a wife could be bought and taken care of by a business? In fact, even sex could be bought and taken care of but this man chose to take a step that binds you to him as his one and only sex partner?

I wouldn’t be surprised if a few hours of “porn star training” for wives saved more marriages than “Christian counseling” and prayer! What are you praying for?! The bible tells you what to do! Submit to your husband as unto the Lord! Respect him, obey him! Are you praying for another way to fix things?

Over the past century the church in the West has become increasing infected by “strange doctrines” that are counter to the teachings of the bible. Sex, one of the greatest gifts given to mankind by God, something holy and good, has been turned into something unholy and unclean by those who should be promoting it the most. Do yourself a favor, learn to be your husbands porn star.

It will benefit you.

It will benefit him.

And, yes, it will be blessed.

Awake, O north wind,
And come, O south!
Blow upon my garden,
That its spices may flow out.
Let my beloved come to his garden
And eat its pleasant fruits.